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Matthew Parris – An Atheist Homosexual with a Better Understanding of Christianity than many Church leaders!

This is an old  but highly relevant article from Matthew Parris – an atheist, homosexual who gets Christianity much better than some professing Christians!  I picked this up from the UK Apologetics FB page…It is an astonishing piece which exposes the flaws in the thinking of the likes of Steve Chalke and all those ‘Christian’ leaders who want us to turn away from (or reinterpret into meaninglessness) the Bible’s teaching.  Read this articles and pass it on… is just as true and relevant as when it was written.

Matthew Parris
The London Times, August 2003

Anglican evangelicals are right. Knowingly to appoint gay bishops robs Christianity of meaning. It is time that convinced Christians stopped trying to reconcile their spiritual beliefs with the modern age and understood that if one thing comes clearly through every account we have of Jesus’s teaching, it is that His followers are not urged to accommodate themselves to their age, but to the mind of God. Christianity is not supposed to be comfortable or feel “natural”. The mind of God, contemplating the behaviour of man, is not expected to be suffused with a spirit of “whatever”. As it happens I do not believe in the mind of God. But Christians do and must strive to know more of it.Nothing they read in the Old and New Testaments gives a scintilla ofsupport to the view that the God of Israel was an inclusive God, orinclined to go with the grain of human nature; much they read suggests a righteous going against the grain.

Certainly it is true that Jesus departed from conventional Judaic teaching in the emphasis He put on forgiveness, but neither the story (for example) of the woman taken in adultery, nor the parable of theprodigal son suggest that He countenanced a continuation of the sins of either. What these stories teach is that repentance is acceptable to God however late it comes, and that the virtuous should not behave in a vindictive manner towards sinners. That is a very different thing from a shoulder-shrugging chuckle of “different strokes for different folks”.

When the row over the appointment of gay bishops first blew up I expected, being gay, to join the side of the Christian modernisers. But try as I do to summon up enthusiasm for my natural allies; sorry as I feel for homosexuals struggling to reconcile their sexuality with their membership of the Church; and strive though I have to feel indignant at the conservative evangelicals, passion fails me. I know why.

“Inclusive”, “moderate” or “sensible” Christianity is inching its way up a philosophical cul-de-sac. The Church stands for revealed truth and divine inspiration or it stands for nothing. Belief grounded in everyday experience alone is not belief. The attempt, sustained since the Reformation, to establish the truth of Christianity on the rock of human observation of our own natures and of the world around us runs right against what the Bible teaches from the moment Moses beheld a burning bush in the Egyptian desert to the point when Jesus rises from the dead in His sepulchre. Stripped of the supernatural, the Church is
on a losing wicket.

Even as a ten-year-old boy in Miss Silk’s Scripture class, when I heard the account of how the parting of the Red Sea could actually be explained by freak tides, and that the story of the loaves and fishes really taught us how Jesus set an example by sharing His disciples’ picnic (so everybody else shared theirs), I thought: “Don’t be silly Miss Silk! If Jesus couldn’t do miracles, why should we listen? If the bush was just burning naturally, then Moses was fooled.”

But – perhaps because like countless would-be Christians down the ages I was fighting an internal scepticism about the supernatural claims of religion – I found myself as an undergraduate powerfully drawn towards the sermons and writings of Joseph Butler. The persuasive, quiet sense of this early- 18th-century Bishop of Durham makes (as our college dean, Mark Santer, later to become Bishop of Birmingham, put it gently to me) “the best case one can” for the theory of natural religion.

By induction alone, Butler seems to suggest, we can draw from what we know of ourselves, of science, and of our world, a picture of the mind of God. He was suspicious of revelation. Butler it was who remarked to the evangelist John Wesley: “Sir, the pretending to extraordinary revelations and gifts of the Holy Ghost is a horrid thing, a very horrid thing.”

In typically compressed but lucid style, he ascribed human goodness to a divine intention. Look at human nature, he said. “It will as fully appear from this our nature . . . is adapted to virtue, as, from the idea of a watch, it appears that its nature . . . is adapted to measure time.” Every work, he said, “is a system; and as every particular thing, both natural and artificial, is for some use or purpose, out of or beyond itself,” so we must ask what mankind is for. He went on to induce the existence of God from the fact that human nature yearns towards something greater and more perfect than itself.

My 1910 Encyclopaedia Britannica devotes 6,000 words to Joseph Butler, and about the same to John Wesley. By the 1960 edition Wesley is steady at 6,000 but Butler is down to a quarter of that length. Today Wesley gets about six times as many words as Butler. Revelation may be a very horrid thing, but it seems to be selling better than reason.

At university I tried very hard to convince myself (as one senses Butler was trying to convince himself) that this appeal to sense will do. I was wrestling with my own sexual leanings at the time (I was 19) and the idea that anything we find within ourselves must be put there for a purpose appealed. Interestingly, it is the Butlerian slant we get today from those Anglicans who advocate the ordination of gay bishops: God cannot reject any loving impulse He has implanted in men, they say. “Really?” I asked the shade of Joseph Butler at 19, and ask the modernists now: how about child- molesting?

At 20 I turned from natural religion to an agnosticism which by degrees has slipped into something as close to atheism as makes no difference. But one could as easily – or, at least, as logically – have turned the other way: towards evangelism, revealed truth and self-denial. For though the New Testament says little about sex or marriage, nothing in the Gospels suggests any departure from Judaic wisdom on such matters, a pretty robust sense of which we gain from the Old Testament.

Jesus was never reluctant to challenge received wisdoms that He wanted to change. He gives no impression that He came into the world to revolutionise sexual mores. Even our eye, if it offends us, must be plucked out.

So this, in summary, is my charge against the Anglican modernists. Can they point to biblical authority for what, on any estimate, amounts to a disturbing challenge to the values assumed in both Testaments? No. Can they point to any divinely inspired religious leader since to whom has been revealed God’s benevolent intentions towards homosexuals? I know of no such saint or holy man. Most have taught the opposite.

Can they honestly say that they would have drawn from Christ’s teachings the same lessons of sexual tolerance in 1000, or 1590, orindeed 1950? Surely not, for almost no such voices were heard then.

In which case, to what does this “reform” amount? Like the changes to Church teaching on divorce or Sunday observance, the new tolerance gains its force within the Anglican Communion from a fear of becoming isolated from changing public morals. Is that a reason for a Christian to modify his own morality? I cannot recall that Moses took this view of golden calf worship. Whispering beneath the modernisers’ soft aspirational language of love and tolerance, I hear an insistent “when
in Rome, we must do as the Romans do. Times have changed.” Gays in particular should be very wary of that message; some of us rememberwhen it was used against us, and such a time may come again.

A religion needs a compass. Logic alone does not point the way and religion adds to the general stock of human reasonableness a new directional needle – if it adds anything at all. I cannot read the Gospels in any way other than as declaring that this was revealed to man by God through Jesus. Revelation, therefore, not logic, must lie at
the core of the Church’s message. You cannot pick and choose from revealed truth.

The path to which the compass points may be a stony one, but this should not matter to a believer. The teachings of the early Church looked unattractive to the Romans. Revelation pointed the way, and only Revelation can point the way now. I believe this Revelation is false, but Christians have nothing else firm to cling to. The common sense of 1720 may almost have seemed to suffice in Joseph Butler’s day, but it will not suffice now. The Church must take wings and fly above sense, or it will drown. Let it fly – and fly away.


  1. Brilliant article!

    It’s a shame the paragraphing, as I’m viewing it at least, is so horribly chopped up – it’s terribly distracting when reading

  2. Excellent. I have read Parris say something similar elsewhere. He strikes me as someone who was near the kingdom at one point. I know he had Christian influences while growing up in Africa that he rated highly.

    I find him wise on many issues. Some, of a more overtly political hue, I suspect you would find wanting David.

    It is at least comforting that someone with no conservative evangelical allegiance can see that conservative evangelicals are reflecting what the bible says. The remorseless newspeak from other camps makes one wonder at times if we are actually misreading the text. May God speak in mercy into Matthew Parris’ heart.

    1. Amen to your final sentence.What puzzles me is given his understanding and acceptance of the Christian gospel what is it that causes him to come down on the side of unbelief ❓Given also that the answer to some of life’s great imponderables,ie,creation , purpose of life and death, the hereafter, can only be explained by the existence and mind of a creator God .
      Could it be that lifestyle has caused mentally an impenetrable glass curtain to descend which unconsciously rules out any submission to a God and his son Jesus who by Matthew Parris’s
      reasoning would expect and require change .

  3. Certainly a sincere thought-provoking article by Matthew Parris, but I am afraid many in the church will just continue with their downhill course with no brakes.

  4. Hi David, I’m not sure that you quite understand what Matthew is actually saying

    “I cannot read the Gospels in any way other than as declaring that this was revealed to man by God through Jesus. Revelation, therefore, not logic, must lie at the core of the Church’s message. You cannot pick and choose from revealed truth.”

    “I believe this Revelation is false, but Christians have nothing else firm to cling to.”

    I think this counts as a backhanded compliment and not in the way that you may like.

    1. I think Christians have a great deal to cling to in the form of fulfilled prophetic dates, rulers, archeological finds, fossil records, foretold empires.

  5. Yep. Parris sums it up well. The progressive,liberal types in the Church know this too. They just try and suppress the Word( and their conscience) by engaging in endless “conversations” about “journeys” etc…… with no intention of embracing orthodox Christian doctrine. Non Christians very often see through this and view them with contempt.

  6. I cannot disagree with the view that our impulses are not the measure of what God wants. Where our impulses disagree with the word of God then we must submit to the authority of the word.

    However, I do not go along with the intransigent God that Parris wants to portray. Parris is writing this article because the idea of the church being marginalised from public opinion and thus from society is attractive to him. Even if his reading of the situation is broadly correct, his motivation is not from concern for the church. I think in doing so, though, he disregards grace and its primary importance in the Gospel message. ‘God is not inclusive’ – well, not in the sense that He goes along with our ways and lifestyles but, yes, in the sense that His door is open to all sinners through grace.

  7. There was criticism of the church being “moderate” in that posting.

    The term moderate needs defining. Martin Luther King was described by some as a moderate and not doing enough. His excellent response to that was to say that direct action, forgiveness and loving ones enemy is not a weakness, it is powerful. It brings about an experience of shame in any white man that is an oppressor. Yet in his “I have a Dream” speech he talks of the “marvelous militancy” of some in the civil rights movement.

    On the other hand being radical can lead to fundamentalism and being moderate can lead to syncretism with either legalism or watering down of the gospel.

    Jesus does call his followers to be radical in giving up lives for his sake in order to have life and also to be moderate in being at peace wherever possible with everyone. Not an easy path to travel.

  8. Matthew P will be a lot closer to the throne than many of us. And if you object to that idea, then you are displaying the judgmentalism that Matthew never seems to display

    1. Neat trick – make a point and then preclude anyone answering it by saying that if anyone disagrees with you they are being judgemental! And the arrogance of claiming that you know that Matthew P will be nearer the throne than others. Who made you judge?! And there is the small matter of no-one entering heaven unless they are born again….!

      1. Judgementalism?! Wooh!

        Quod erat demonstrandum!

        I am not in fact claiming that Matthew P is born again, but in terms of fruit, I suspect one of the fruit least attractive to God is judgementalism and Matthew does not display that

        Nor am I ‘judging’ but we all make ‘assessments’ based on fruit, and fruit is much more subtle than whether someone claims, believes, understands or speaks the language of being a Christian – is it not more a question of where their heart is yearning, a yearning beneath their yearning?

    2. Matthew Parris would be honest enough to say he does not belong in the Christian heaven. It is his honesty that is so commendable in the face of the kind of assertions that sound plausible but are deceptive because they deal dishonestly with Scripture depending on biblical ignorance for cogency.

      A classic example (yours aside Richard) is a YouTube video I listened to by a C of S minister from Mayfield Edinburgh. It was a sermon intended to show that substitutionary atonement was unbiblical. The minister without a blush said OT sacrifices, upon which he agreed the death of Christ was modelled, had nothing to do with sin. He is either ignorant or dishonest and I suspect the latter for it is impossible to read either the OT or the NT and miss the tight connection between blood sacrifice and sin. As Hebrews says,

      22 Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins.23 Thus it was necessary for the copies of the heavenly things to be purified with these rites, but the heavenly things themselves with better sacrifices than these. 24 For Christ has entered, not into holy places made with hands, which are copies of the true things, but into heaven itself, now to appear in the presence of God on our behalf. 25 Nor was it to offer himself repeatedly, as the high priest enters the holy places every year with blood not his own, 26 for then he would have had to suffer repeatedly since the foundation of the world. But as it is, he has appeared once for all at the end of the ages to put away sin by the sacrifice of himself.
      Hebrews 9:22-26 | ESV

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